“It’s wonderful and it’s horrible,” Ben said.
I had said something to him about how awesome it was that he and his wife were so successful -
“People say that to us all the time,” he said.
“But the truth is
and it’s awful.”
There was a three second pause between each phrase, since he was drunk.
and it’s abysmal.
and it’s hell.”
He seemed to be referring to their marriage.
“The reason you’re not successful,” he continued,
you don’t push yourself.”
“Yeah, I’m lazy,” I said.
“You’re not lazy. But
you don’t push yourself.”He went on. A few feet away, Alex and Jim sat quietly on the couch with their newborn daughter, hearing an unsolicited but probably very necessary pep talk.
For Christmas, I gave Mom several presents, including a set of artisan felted wool coasters. The set consisted of two yellow coasters and two blue coasters, with an artsy silkscreened design on the top of each coaster.
After a few months, I noticed that Mom consistently used the blue coasters on the correct side and the yellow coasters turned over to wrong side.
"You don’t like the yellow coasters?" I asked her one day.
"Then why do you turn it over to this side?"
"What’s the difference?"
I flipped the coaster over. "This side is the design side."
"Either one. No difference."
"There’s a difference: This is the design side . . . this is not the design side."
"It’s you who buys it, not me."
"That’s true, but I intended for you to use the design side."
"And I intend to use the non-design side as the design side," she said.
I'm going to start posting random photos from my collection of Japanese home decor magazines, since I love the combination of Japanese kanji/hirigana/katakana with impeccable styling/photography/layout.
This one is from a magazine called Kawaii [Something], Volume 2. I have no idea what the second word is.
At the top of the cover, there are some characters that read "putesuito na interia to [something] hon." Something interior and something book. aahhh I don't know.